4 Easy steps to starting a new relationship after a break-up

          A breakup is not the end of your life and at some point in your life you simply have to move on with your life after the breakup. One of the areas in your life in which you will be moving on with is starting to date again. Some people become cold hearted about relationships after a terrible breakup, they become affected psychologically and emotionally, well in that case you need counseling to recover. Without any further ado here comes the four steps…..

Step # 1

Find a place where you can meet people, any where in a mall, a shop, supermarket, social club, a party just any place where you can interact with people. Visiting places that interests you can be advantageous as it will be easy to start a conversation with anyone which is relevant to the environment (to those like me, who starting a conversation is a problem). For example if you are at a football match you can start a conversation about football, if it’s the supermarket you might start with something related to buying, just make it relevant to the setting.

Step # 2

Now its time to find the person you like whether it’s a girl or a guy. We all have our preferences in the opposite sex, well, if you don’t I do! After spotting someone you like it time to move to step 3

Step # 3

Start sending signals to the person. The most easiest and yet very effective is utilizing the eye contact technique. When that other person is interested in you he will pick up the signal and send you back another signal. This helps you to know if that person likes you even before starting a conversation. Well for me I don’t like to be dumped in public so this helps me know whether I have hit the spot or not. If that person does not pick your signal and avoids eye contact with you, that’s a clear indication that person isn’t interested so don’t burn more of those precious calories in your body find someone else. Well in this step its all about sending signals to the other person, eye contact is not the only signal you can use, body posture is another in short it’s all about reading the person’s body language in reaction to your signals. This step becomes more interesting as it the beginning of the last step. Since that person you are interested in has picked and accepted your signal you are already in a conversation though it’s non- verbal, so now is the time to start the real conversation. 

Step # 4

Please help me here, should I say walk towards the person and start a conversation or walk to the person and continue your conversation? Either way, since you are now connected conversing will be easy and sweet. Keep enjoying it….

Well friend please just don’t forget to ask for his/her phone number.

There you are, off to a new relationship.

What else can I say; thanks to my failure you are having a new relationship.

I would love to hear what this stuff has done to you...

Take care friend. See you in the next post.

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